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Thursday, September 26, 2013

26th September 2013



The supposed 5th year.
To be really honest, it slipped my mind until he sent me a text.
Then flashbacks of the good times and all that we’ve experienced & been through together started making me emotional


Its ironic that the marital bond in Sept, is also gone in Sept.
In the blink of an eye,
we’ve lived separately for almost a year now. 25th October to be exact.
& the entire divorce took forever to process.

Filed for it in Dec 2012.
Took til around July for the papers to be sent to him
A lot of processing to be done here & there.
After which, he was given 8 days to contest the divorce
but he apparently did nothing
If he didn’t do nothing = non contested

So it goes into some sort of process again


Then we were both called in on an appointed date to attend the CFRC
(Child Focused Resolution Centre)
which consisted of a verbal discussion on Child Maintenance Fees & Care and Control of the child followed by a counselling session by a counsellor.

All in all, we’ve attended 2 sessions of CFRC (Child Focused Resolution Centre) held at the Family Court together.

& because we could still communicate really well as friends,
everything was discussed & settled amicably (eventually).


We don’t have to attend any other sessions anymore *YAY
Verbally in court and in the judge’s presence, all is resolved.
The only thing now is to wait for the final judgement in October.
in other words, a hardcopy of our divorce cert (something in black & white) to be sent to us


Relieved & glad that the tiring journey with the lawyer is almost over.

This date however, still brings me way back when it was still sweet & fantasy-ish


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this pic WAS my fav of the lot.
HOWEVER…..
It is now somewhat uneasy for me to swallow the intimacy of this pic hahahahahaha



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This was from our LAST CFRC session
We were both coincidentally in white tops, same shade of blue bottoms & blue shoes
Got us a little hyped up about that telepathy

We are i guess PARIENDS now
Parents & Friends
For the sake of Trev we will continue to be good awesome parents
For the sake of Trev and for the sake of not committing a murder offence e.g slaughtering one another out of revenge and hatred, we will continue to be friends

exclaimer : COOPERATION NEEDED


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Pictures like this no longer have that sibei sweet effect
SORRY ITS MEAN BUT TRUE lol!


K, before u get pissed,
THINK ABOUT HOW I SHOULD BE MORE PISSED for what you did
but ive been taking it well… real well
SO PEACE OUT ! lollollol

 

 

This journey is indeed,
A life lesson altogether.